- 1 What to do when a student lacks respect?
- 1.1 I am a teacher What to do if a student disrespects me?
- 1.2 There are two types of respect
- 1.3 What to do when a student lacks respect?
- 1.4 Types of disrespect
- 1.5 What to do in each type?
- 1.6 When a student lacks respect in a mild way
- 1.7 When a student is disrespectful in a serious way
- 1.8 When a student lacks respect in a very serious way
- 1.9 What not to do when a student is disrespectful
What to do when a student lacks respect?
I am a teacher What to do if a student disrespects me?
Respect is a fundamental value in all societies, respect is in charge of maintaining the order of the people, all the problems of aggression, physical and verbal violence originate from lack of respect.
In school as in all other organizations, respect is considered the most important value.
At school, respect is earned or demanded? All human beings deserve to be respected, regardless of the position, age, gender, etc. Directors, Teachers, Supervisors and Students deserve to be respected in the same way.
There are two types of respect
Innate: We have all human beings at birth.
Acquired: It is respect “earned”, this respect can be achieved in two ways
– Doing something good for society
-Doing no harm to society
Teacher, throughout your professional life, you will go through these problems, and it is very important to know how to act correctly, since a bad decision could hurt you in a big way.
What to do when a student lacks respect?
If a student lacks respect, you must first consider the “type of lack of respect”, it is clear that if a student is disrespectful, however small that lack must be sanctioned, however it is important to know what to do and what not to do in each type of lack of respect.
Types of disrespect
It is considered a slight disrespect when the student uses obscene and out of place signals, for example: “Take out the middle finger” “Contempt look” and others.
It is considered a serious lack of respect when the student uses malicious words, obscene and with abuse of confidence using the “Tuteo”: “So, what else?” “That you care” “Go to the% $ # &% # & … ”
It is considered a very serious lack of respect when the student uses physical force: Punching, kicking, pushing or even the use of physical objects to attack; Sticks, blades, scissors, or firearms.
What to do in each type?
When a student lacks respect in a mild way
– Ask her kindly to leave the classroom and at the end of class try to talk to him about his bad behavior, if he apologizes, accept them, in these cases it is not recommended to go to the extreme of calling the parents.
-If the situation is repeated, do not talk to him, immediately call his parents to present your complaint (only if the student is a minor).
-If you have spoken with your parents, the situation is repeated again, leave it in the hands of the authorities of the study center
When a student is disrespectful in a serious way
– Ask him to leave the classroom and call his parents to present their complaint (only if the student is a minor)
-If after having spoken with your parents the situation is repeated, leave it in the hands of the authorities of the study center.
When a student lacks respect in a very serious way
In the case of suffering physical aggression on the part of the student, file a complaint with the nearest commissary, at this point your life is in danger and it is out of the academic field, it takes the case in a particular way of Victim-Aggressor and not Student-Teacher .
What not to do when a student is disrespectful
Be light, serious or very serious never hit the student, if you do it most likely you lose, your integrity and reputation will go flat, so manage your emotions and impulses very well and this is only achieved by being prepared and knowing What to do and do not.
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